A Nigerian woman has shared the marital dilemma she found herself in after cheating on her husband who is also a serial cheat.
She claims her husband has cheated on her 11 times, including with her cousin in their four years of marriage and she forgave him, however, when she did hers, he decided to assault her.
The woman said she and her friend slept with two guys during a weekend getaway and her husband discovered what happened when he read where they were talking about it on WhatsApp.
She said she had to call several family meetings for them to help resolve the matter as he threatened to leave the marriage.
In her words; “My husband cheated on me 11 times in the past 4 years and I forgave him. Two weekends ago my girls and I went on a weekend getaway and things got out of hand. We met guys there and got intimate. My one friend and I did a 4-sum with 2 guys we don’t know.
“So my friend and I were talking about it on WhatsApp and I forgot to delete the chats. My husband saw the chats and he assaulted me. I moved out of our bedroom since that day. I’ve been called to three family meetings so far. He’s threatening to leave. I don’t understand why because I forgave him when he cheated with 11 girls, including my cousin. Why is the other gender unfair. Pls your advice is needed here What do I do.”
Meanwhile, in another news….
Delectable Nollywood actress, Sarah Martins has opined that it is possible for a man to love, protect, and provide for his side chic while still loving his wife and family.
She, however, said the same is not the same for women as a wife can never cheat on her husband and still love him like before.
Sarah, in a post on her Instagram page said once a woman cheats, she begins to look at her man in a condescending way and starts faulting everything he does. The curvaceous actress also said some side chics love men more than their wives do, to the point that they even support them financially.
In her words; I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
Most of these so called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
