I feel useless in the relationship – Nigerian man dumps girlfriend because she’s independent

A WhatsApp conversation which captures a Nigerian man breaking up with his woman for an unusual reason, has surfaced online and stirred reactions.

He claimed that he was ending their relationship because she’s too independent that it makes him feel useless in the relationship.

The boyfriend explained to her that he fears he can not control her due to how independent-minded she is in their relationship.

He further admitted that the issue has been on his mind for long, stressing that is not ready to continue a relationship with a lady who cannot be submissive to him.

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In other relationship news…

A Nigerian man has revealed how he recently tried to get his ex-girlfriend back even though she is now married. He said he attempted making her husband jealous when he bumped into them.

The guy known as Adeola, who still misses his ex, said he gave the married woman a warm hug in the presence of her partner.

According to him, the husband was watching them, and he hopes that after they went their separate ways, the man became jealous enough to dump her.

Adeola expressed the desire to get his former girlfriend her back if her husband ends their marriage out of jealousy.

He wrote; ”Yesterday I ran into my ex, and we gave each other a warm hug while her partner watched us. Wallahi, I’m hoping he starts overthinking and breaks down so I can get my girlfriend back.”

Reacting, @rovertleinad said; You never know the value of something until you lose it. You see the love she gives with all of her being and you take it for granted, thinking you can easily get such from anyone…. Then you leave and you realise it isn’t so. Take your L chief and move on

@rovertleinad; …I for support you ooo, but then I realise that would be a disservice to me. My future wife will be sum1 else’s ex too, and she will definitely be a blessing from God. Now imagine her ex praying I f**k things up cos of my insecurities so he can have her for himself. God forbid.

@Bucarai; U go soon begin pay child support for another man’s pikin or finance their wedding half way before your eye go clear. 😂

@mogentlegan; If this was a serious relationship&my babe does this whilst I’m aware of the history that exists here. I no go even talk,I go hail her&the ex sef. My silent quest for a sensible partner starts pronto. Her breakfast will be 9.0 on the Ritchter earthquake scale.Jokers..

@TheAwakener_; You are not serious. If you want her so much why did you let her go? You people will treat someone badly and they leave to be happy with someone else now you want her back. To kukuma destroy her future past abi?

@kingvictorbrown; Lucky you. Nice x! I had a girlfriend you leave at your own peril, cos she will be texting you blow by blow intimate accounts of her doings with her new guy. Sometimes na lies but believe me your day must spoil as soon as you receive the text.