A Nigerian lady has set some ground rules with her boyfriend on what they should expect from each other in the relationship.
She queried her man for not spending on her as much as she wants and he said he is not her husband or father.
The lady said she cannot date a stingy man and if her man insists on not taking care of her then she would discontinue some intimacy they share.
In a WhatsApp conversation, the man explained that he is not saying he won’t spend on her but he doe not want her to feel entitled to his money.
She argued that if he wants to maintain that position then she would make sure she does not give him access to her body because he is not entitled to it.
The girlfriend listed some things that she would not engage in with and also barred her boyfriend from making certain requests.
Read the chat:
In other relationship matters, a man has narrated how he discovered that his fiancée is having an affair with a friend he allowed to stay with him.
The guy who lives with his babe said his friend visited him in Lagos and he agreed to accommodate him in his two-bedroom apartment.
According to the heartbroken man, their wedding is coming up in August this year. He said things were going smoothly for six months, but the situation took a new dimension when his company sent him to Cameroon on a getaway and he left his fiancee behind with his friend in the same house.
When he returned, he tried retrieving a number from his friend’s phone and that was when he saw a WhatsApp message from his wife-to-be’s number even though it was not saved.
He wrote; This my friend came to Lagos to stay with me as I am currently living in a 2bedroom flat with my girlfriend, someone I am planning to get married to by August this year, that’s even more reason why I got this apartment in the first place.
So this my friend called me that he wants to come and hustle small in Lagos, he has been staying with us for 6months now and everything good. I traveled for my company’s getaway to Cameroon, spent one month there. I got back on Friday and I noticed something wasn’t right. But I didn’t pay much attention.
This morning, I collected my friend’s phone to pick a number to call then one funny message came through from his WhatsApp and I opened it like who is this guy. I was still laughing and closed back the message when I noticed my wife’s number in the WhatsApp chat “unsaved” though. I moved slight and I opened the chat.
Please do you think the did has been done? Cos I have been at Obalende since morning thinking and wondering why I shouldn’t go to the third mainland bridge and just dive. This is a girl that I paid for 5years through the university. Engineering course btw.