A Ghanaian woman has shared a domestic matter of financial allocation by her husband which is bothering her.
She lamented that her hubby gives his parents money for upkeep and other things but he does not do the same for her parents.
The married woman said he earns GHc 20,000 (N914k) salary monthly and out of the money, he gives her GHc4500 (N205k) while he gives his parents GHc2000 (N90k).
She said that she made him realise that she was not happy with the fact that he does not give her dad, mum or siblings any money.
She suggested that there should be a rotational arrangement whereby they send to both their parents on a monthly basis.
He, however, discarded the suggestion and said that she should give herparents from the GHc4500 he gives her monthly.
The post reads; “Something is bothering me and I need y’all help quick.So I’m married and I’m about to have my first baby, I’m not really working tho but my husband is. He earns 20000gh+ monthly (including his business income).
So he give me 4500 monthly, give his parents 2000gh each plus his younger brodas…and sisters. But there’s one thing bothering me and that’s he doesn’t give my parents and brothers and sisters money too. I told him we have to be doing it rotational, atleast if u give your parents money this month, the next month will go to my parents but he said he’s not going to accept that.
He said if I want to give my parents money, I should do that from the money he give me every month and u know things are costly. The money sef he give me is not even enough and he’s saying I should give my parents money from there. What should I do now?”
Meanwhile, a lady has revealed that she is pregnant for her boyfriend’s friend whom they accommodated in their house.
She said she pays equal rent with her boyfriend and he invited his friend to stay with them early this year even after she vehemently opposed the idea.
The lady said she is now three months pregnant for the guy who has his own girlfriend and is telling her to pin the child on her boyfriend.
According to her, the main man promised to marry her when he is done with his Masters degree but seeing as how he continues to delay, she now wants to leave him for the friend.
She also knows the girlfriend of the person she is pregnant for, but given the complicated situation, she sought advice on how to deal with the secret lover’s girl.
She further said the other man also promised to breakup with his babe and marry her but she does not know if he will keep his word.
The woman blamed her boyfriend for what happened, saying that if he had listened to her and not invited his friend, she would not have gotten pregnant or fallen for him.
In her words; ‘‘I rented an apartment with my boyfriend. We paid fifty fifty. Earlier this year he brought in his friend to live with us against my will. We were to get married once he’s done with his Masters. To cut the long story short, I am 3 months gone for his friend, sadly this friend has a serious relationship.
My guy believes that he is responsible for the pregnancy. When I told his friend that I’m pregnant for him, he said I should pretend that the baby belongs to my guy,while he looks for money to rent his own apartment and then end his relationship with his girlfriend. I love him and would want to settle down with him. As for my guy he will deal with it, because I did my best to discourage him from bringing his friend to live with us. Moreover he wasn’t serious about marrying me.
Where I need advise is on how to deal with his girlfriend because she happen to be someone i know (close). And do you think he will rent an apartment and take care of me as he promised? This can happen to anyone, please don’t judge me. Just need advise.”
