A Nigerian digital marketer, Olufemi has advised men to breakup with their woman if she is the type that likes to upload her photos online.
He said that a woman who does that is indirectly passing a message to her boyfriend that she is available to other men, incase he misbehaves.
Femi advised men to cut off commitment the moment they realise their girlfriend loves posting her photos because she is seeking validation and attention of men she wants even while she’s in a relationship.
According to the Influencer, women do not approach or woo men, so the only thing they can do is to position themselves to be approached by men.
In his words; ‘‘If you’re dating a woman who is always uploading her pictures on social media, withdraw your commitment to her because she is indirectly telling you that she is available to other men. Any woman who is always posting pictures of herself on social media is craving the attention of other men. The game for women is to put themselves at a position where men will see them and approach them because women don’t approach. Men are the ones who do the approaching.
Some women will say “ I’m posting the pictures for myself to make myself feel good “ if that’s the case why not hide the pictures where only her sees them ? Or better still keep the pictures in her gallery and go view them whenever she’s doesn’t feel good about herself since the pictures are for her eye only… women enjoy attention generally even from the men they won’t date or give a chance!
They enjoy validation from every angle, now some will come and say “ I get attention however I dress “ just to justify you letting them post pictures online, if she’s single it’s a different ball game, at least she’s putting herself out there, and don’t let her guilt trip you or shame you that it’s because you’re insecure and a secure man wouldn’t mind, all those manipulation tactics is to play with your Ego into letting them do whatever they want, while they restrict you from doing whatever you want, if she’s secure as well she’ll let you sleep with other women since at the end of the day she’s your main chick ! 😂 see how it is when I flip the role ?
The thing is a secure man has boundaries and you either follow his rules or you get kicked back to the streets, it’s actually an insecure man that lets his woman do whatever she wants because he’s scared of loosing her and doesn’t think he can replace her so he lets her behave like she’s single even when she already has his commitment and Mr Bingo will play safe thinking he’s wise unknown to him that he’s been manipulated. Know this and know peace.”
In other news, a Nigerian lady identified as Maryam Lasisi has revealed that she lost interest in a man he was interested in dating due to his reaction to losing out in sports betting.
She recounted when she called him on phone and he was crying uncontrollably because his ticket cut and she felt irritated.
According to Maryam, though she does not see anything wrong with a man showing emotions, she felt the way he cried was too much for a man.
She explained that her impression of him changed because of that incident, so she dumped the idea of going into a relationship with him.
Maryam wrote; ”I called him and he was crying because his bet cut. I’m all for men showing emotions but hearing “Omo I f**k up” while someone was crying his eyes out was very cringe. Omo, I couldn’t look at him the same way again abeg.”