Why I hate stingy men – Writer, Chidera Slumflower

British-Nigerian author, Chidera Eggerue also known as Chidera Sunflower, has said she does not like stingy men.

She said her hate for stingy men stems from the idea of feeling unappreciated that a man who is rich would want to take her to bed without giving her money.

Chidera, who was speaking during a podcast said dating a guy who has money and is not generous is a waste of time.

The writer stated that his decision not to give her money is tantamount to him not wanting to see her happy because it means he’s comfortable watching his woman struggle despite being wealthy.

According to her, stinginess is enough for someone to know how the person that likes them would treat them if they get into a serious relationship.

Chidera said she does not have a sense of entitlement of being pampered with money because she is beautiful but she feels it’s wrong for a man to hoard his resources while expecting her to give him her body.

Watch her speak below:

In other news, Big Brother Naija season 6 housemate, Nini Singh, has said that she would prefer being rich and sad to having happiness as a poor person.

The reality star stated this via her Instagram page and it stirred reactions from fans because she made it known that it will always be her choice no matter the circumstances.

Nini gave the response when she was asked to choose between having riches and being sad or being happy and living as a pauper.

The brand ambassador shared a video which showed her saying she would choose flying all over the world in her private jets, offending with Fendi, crying inside her palatial house or luxurious whip over being poor so that she can maintain her baby girl for life.

According to the Nigerian-Indian, crying in a Lambo is the lifestyle every young girl dreams of having.

She captioned; “Baby girl status for life, who else wants to cry in Lambo with me?”

In reaction, Denrele wrote; This generation is gone. Why can’t you be average and be happy instead? Are you underrating?, Stop being primitive. Nothing is stopping you from being rich and happy.

chinenyenwigwe; Terminal illness is part of sadness, God forbid.

nancy.treasure; Dearest Nini, sadness is beyond what you thought. We pray to be rich and happy at the same time.

thecutestgrace; The blessings of God make rich and add no sorrow.

jaynedebaybee; It seems you don’t know what sadness is, don’t ever wish for sadness because it can lead to depression/suicide. Nothing to be compared with happiness. Being sad is equivalent to being poor because you won’t enjoy the riches.