Popular relationship counselor, John Doe, has given men a hint on the type of women they should be giving money.
He said that a girl in the university will most likely not appreciate 5,000 she received from a man, however, a working class lady would react differently.
According to the Twitter Influencer, when a man gives 5k to a female graduate who works, she would be grateful because she knows the value of money.
John Doe said; “Give a university girl 5k, & she will most likely not be grateful. Give a working class lady that’s is a graduate, 5k, and she will appreciate it because she knows the value of money.
Uni girls that want to use the latest iPhones just because they have (something down there?) Mtsheew. End.”
Meanwhile a Nigerian lady simply known as Kemi, has said she no longer buys gifts for men due to what she observed which is that they are unappreciative.
She took to her Twitter page and shared past experiences with two of her former boyfriends in a bid to drive home her point.
Kemi said she bought a shirt for one of her exes only for her to visit his house some other day and see that he has turned it to rag.
She also narrated how she gifted another boyfriend a birthday cake but he gave out the pastry to his neighbours in her presence.
According to her, these incidents are what formed the basis for her decision and ever since then she has not given a single gift to any man.
Kemi tweeted; ”I stopped buying gift for men since my two worst experiences. I got a tshirt for the first one and the next time I visited, it was his rag, I got a birthday cake for the second one and he gave it out to his neighbors in my presence. Ever since then I vowed never to get men gifts.”
When netizens started lambasting her, saying it was a lousy reason for not giving her boyfriends anything, she replied; Everyone trying to defend what’s not and I can’t reply to all so I will just put this here. Regardless of what ever.. those things costs me money. A little gratitude would go a long way even if it’s pretending.”
When @emmofie asked; So if they have been buying you iPhones, bags, shoes, expensive hangouts they should jump up because you bought them a N700 tshirt?
@TheOnlyKemi said; “For your information, they have never given me a penny.. and no it wasn’t 700 naira T-shirt, I’m not your cheap girlfriend.”
In reaction, @OkoyeCardinal said; Ask your man what he likes, I once gave out a birthday cake to my colleagues. Someone like me, I prefer bucket of egusi soup over cake.
@_Copah_Jay; Honestly for me that isn’t used to getting gifts. I really do appreciate everything little given even if it’s a card cos it’s way beyond the gift but the intention towards it. People should be humane enough not to hurt others trying to be good.