Are you in a relationship where you have this strong feeling that your partner isn’t just right for you? You try your possible best to believe anything he or she tells you but you feel your relationship isn’t just going right? If you feel this way, I think it’s time you confirm your instinct about him or her.
In this post, we shall be taking a look at 10 signs that could show you if you are in a relationship with the wrong person.
1. When Your Partner Gives Excuses All The Way
Some partners are fond of showing very little or no concern for their spouses and then blame it all on being busy all the time. The truth is that when your partner always gives excuses for everything, it is possible they do not feel anything for you. They claim not to call much because they are ever busy, yet they have time to shower, put on their clothes, go for lunch when it’s time and do every other thing they can not push aside but when it comes to hearing from you, they are busy. That is because you are probably not important to them. People make time to attend to the things that are important to them and if your partner does not do that for you, I am sorry to say but he or she might not be the right person for you.
Just get that, if your partner gives you the 24/7 excuse, my dear there is no love there. No matter how busy your partner is, if there is love, they will never click the excuse icon.
2. You Are The Only One Who Tries To Make It Work
I tell you, when you are the only one always putting efforts in trying to make sure your relationship works while your partner doesn’t even care, then you should know that you are dating the wrong person.
3. They Don’t Mention You To Their Family Members
When your partner doesn’t make attempt to introduce you to their family members, then you should know something is wrong. In most cases, they see it that whatever they have with you is not serious or probably someone else is already being introduced. You are just on standby as far as I am concerned.
4. No Plans For The Future?
When Your partner doesn’t have a reasonable goal for your relationship not to talk of having plans for how the future will look like, when he or she doesn’t like talking of where the relationship stands and where it’s going and if you ask them, they shy away from it or get angry, just know you might be in a wrong relationship.
This attitude shows that you are dating the wrong person and you need to do something about it.
5. Never Shows Up For Your Memorable Event
Your partner claims you are special, he or she loves and can’t do without you, blablabla!! How will you feel when he or she doesn’t show up on the day of your graduation? Or doesn’t show up to celebrate with you should you get a promotion at your workplace and most especially birthdays and do not even call you to let you know they won’t make it. I know you are asking what if something very important came up, even if something very crucial happened and he or she apologizes later on, it is not still a good one. I wouldn’t take this serious if it is a one time something, but if it becomes an habit, then he or she might not just be the right person for you.
6. Your Instincts Keep Telling You They Are Not The Right Person
Does a voice keep telling you that your partner is not real? Or your relationship doesn’t just feel right? Hmm, your instinct might just be right, and you may just have to follow it. If you do not feel being involved in your relationship, there is no need to be in it.
7. Finds It Hard To Introduce You To Their Friends Or Introduces You As A “Friend” To His Or Her Friends
I mean who does that? You two fall in love, experience ups and downs, dealing with situations together and all your partner does is say “meet my friend” to their friends or they won’t even mention you to their friends at all. Gosh! It hurts dear because it shows they are not proud of you and they don’t love or even like you. That is a big sign that you are probably rolling with the wrong person.
8. Poor Or No Connection
When they find it hard to call or text you or don’t even do any at all. The connection is one very strong basis of a healthy relationship. If it’s not there, then it’s just a “replaytionship”.
9. You Feel Being Single
When you are in a relationship where you feel lonely and more like you are single, that could be as a result of being in a wrong relationship. It shows how unimportant you are in the relationship.
10. He Or She Doesn’t Care
You are just there, he or she doesn’t care if you have eaten, how your day went, finds it hard checking on you to the extent you call to let them know you are still alive. Hmm! That isn’t right if you really want to have a long-lasting relationship.
once you are able to detect these signs, just know that you might be dating the wrong person.