A Nigerian man identified as Chidindu Dimaku, has stirred controversy online with his assertion about why not all men want to settle down with a beautiful woman.
He took to his Facebook page and stated that whenever he sees a lady who is beautiful but is yet to be married, he realises that not every man wants beauty, rather they are looking for good character in their ideal woman.
Chidindu wrote; “Each time I see a beautiful woman without husband, I realize that beauty is not what every man want, but good characters.”
Reacting, social media users disagreed with the young man while others lambasted him for his opinion.
See his post:
zinnyluxurious; U guys have started again 😂😂😂😂 nawooo everyone will be fine trust me
bft_technology; And how does he know that the beautiful woman is ready to be married?
faithpeter11; I’m beautiful with good character
hettytn; Pheeeeew! Women don suffer for this life sha! It is well!
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She, however, said the same is not the same for women as a wife can never cheat on her husband and still love him like before.
Taking to her Instagram page, Sarah said once a woman cheats, she begins to look at her man in a condescending way and starts faulting everything he does. The curvaceous actress also said some side chics love men more than their wives do, to the point that they even support them financially.
In her words; I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action. Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
Most of these so called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
Your side man friends can NEVER dump their partners because of you because they will have the mentality that if you can cheat on your husband with him, you can do worst things to him when he finally makes u his. So use your head and stop disgracing your children ! You may think nobody is seeing you but posterity will judge you sis. And you men that find joy in sleeping with people’s wives, posterity will judge you!
I have seen where a man marries more than one wife and still love them equally but I’ve never seen where a woman marries more than 1 man. Even in the Bible MEN NA OUR OGA! Feminists if you insult me on these post trailer will jam you.