First dates can sometimes come up with difficulties and obstacles, leaving frustrated, but with proper guidelines, you will achieve a perfect first-time date. So, are you a man and have been wondering where to start from or how to go about your first date with a woman, worry no more, this article is here to put you through and believe me, if you are able to follow these guidelines, you will forever be happy you did.
Before the date, you plan.
Women are so much attracted to men who have plans. They are so addicted and madly interested with men who are able to think fast and come up with quick plans. So before going on a date with a woman, make sure you prepare very well and do not leave any plan on the way. The woman you are taking out on a date with should just sit and enjoy her stay and she shouldn’t be burdened with any issue.
So what are the plans?
Clean the car
if you are going out together in the car, you need to make sure that both the inside and outside of the car is sparkling clean. Remember that the first impression matters a lot. If you are clean, she will know, likewise if you are dirty. No lady will want to go out with you in a car that is very dirty and rough. Even if it is Benz. If your car is dirty, the woman will think that your house will even be worse than the state of your car. So think about this plan and don’t mess it up. If your car has this bad smells, put in some nice scent.
Get some money
Before going for a date with a woman, make sure you are with enough money. It won’t be appropriate for the woman to start paying for all the bills. It will be a big turn off. Remember, you will be paying for the food and drink; you may also pay for transport if you are going with a cab.
Dress up well
As the saying goes, dress the way you want people to address you. You need to put on something that shows that you really made out time to prepare for the date. Do not dress like you hurriedly prepared for the date. Put on a well-ironed trouser and shirt and make sure you polish your shoe very well.
Before going for a date with a woman, its good you call her before that day to know how she is preparing, get to know if there is anything she needs and also chip in one or two things that you guys are going to do on the date. This is to enable her to prepare well for the date and not to come and then be taken by surprise. When she gets to know what you will be doing together, she will feel more relaxed and comfortable with you.
Before going on a date, try to find out a reasonable place that will be cool for you and the woman. Your first date should not be in the cinema. Do you know why? You are not going on a date to be looking at the screen but to talk with each other. So pick a place where both of you can easily communicate and look into each other as you discuss. For a first time date, don’t go looking for a venue that is too disclosed, an open place with no distraction is okay.
B. The day
Don’t be late
On that day, as a gentleman you are, you must not be late. When you arrive late, you are leaving a bad impression that you can never keep to time. It is wrong to keep a woman waiting. Perhaps, you will be late, quickly call the woman and let her know what the circumstance is and the time you will show up. And also, do not show up too early. You know why? Some women can spend the whole day preparing and you may probably be 30 minutes earlier while she is still in the bathroom. You will probably feel embarrassed this way. So learn to balance it up so as not to mess that day up.
Stand up, go to the door
when you notice that she is close to the door, stand up and go meet her and open the door for her. As you open the door, compliment her looks because she must have spent a good number of hours preparing herself. Let her know that you appreciate her effort by complimenting her.
Keep it simple and short
It is the first date and should not be too long. Remember you are not proposing yet and shouldn’t take the whole day else the date becomes boring to the woman. Let your first date be fun, romantic and short.
C. The end
Walk her to the door
You’ve both had a wonderful day and now she is going home. You need to take her with you to her place and walk her to the door as you hold her hand but do not enter the house with her. Even if she offers you to come in, just say ‘thanks, maybe next time’. You are a gentleman remember!
Make a move
Before leaving her, it won’t be a bad idea if you give her a warm hug. As you hug her, do not make the mistake of kissing her. Even if she needs a kiss at that time, do not. Take it cool. You need to leave her wanting more of you. Don’t be too fast.
Follow her up
After the date, you need to call her before you go to bed and the next day of it and other days as well. This shows that you really want her for a relationship. Don’t wait for two or four days before calling her after the first date. Call her to thank her for the time she spent with you; appreciate her. If she isn’t picking up her calls at that time, don’t worry, leave a message and ask her to call back. Please note this, do not go to her social media timeline to thank her for the date, it’s wrong. Be an intelligent gentleman.
I believe that with these key guidelines, your first date will be a perfect one. Let me know what other key guides you have for having a perfect first-time date and do not forget to use the share button.