A Nigerian man has expressed doubt over his new wife’s claim that she married him as a virgin.
He said that when they consumated their marriage on that day, he did not observe the biological reaction which commonly happens when a girl loses her virginity.
According to the man, it has been disturbing him since they tied the knot six weeks ago and he has tried to find out if it is a rare case.
The man who shared his story with Joro Olumofin said they met in church and dated for six months and being that they are religious, abstinence was agreed until marriage.
He said he has inquired from doctors and other women on their experience when they lost their virginity and their stories, though the same, differs from what happened with his wife.
In his words; “Joro, good day. I don’t know if this is a big deal. I love my wife but for the past weeks have been looking for 1 drop of blo..Od but no bl..00d. I even bought white bed sheet so I can monitor bl..00d but we have had S..£x 6 times and no single bl00..d.
I dated my wife for 6 months before we wedded. We met in church, it’s against our religion to have sxx before marriage and I honor it. My wife is beautiful, caring, she has nice job. Everything I want. We both support the same football club. She is my best friend. I believe she l!ed to me about her being a virgin. Honestly it’s not a big deal like that. But is it possible for a virgin not to bl..££d?
I have asked my doctor friends, I have asked so many women. They all bl..Єd after s£..x. Why is my own wife not bl££ding. ?? What else is she ly!ng about?”
Similarly, a 33-year-old man has gone online to seek help with searching for a woman who shares the same values with him so that he can marry her.
He wrote to an online counselor to help connect him with a lady who has the qualities he is looking for in a wife.
The man, who revealed he is still a virgin said he’s never been in a relationship all his life and he’s scared of the modern day woman who are very active n the bedroom.
He specifically asked for a lady that’s also a virgin like him, and would love to keep their chastity till marriage.
According to him, a woman between 21 to 22 years he can put his trust in and build a peaceful home with is the type he wants.
In his words; “I’m a guy of 33, and proudly a virgin. I’m from Anambra and looking forward to settling down from 2023. I’ve not been in any relationship before now and I’m scared of this end time ladies with high penile mileage.
I need someone who shares the same value with me,no sex before marriage. I need someone I can trust and have a peaceful home with. A post you made about 3 hours ago about a girl of 21 or 22yrs who wants to keep herself,really got me. I will so much appreciate it if you can link us up. Or any advice from you will be welcome.”
