My husband refuses to open business for me or buy me stuff – Housewife laments

A distraught housewife, Violet Omhenke has cried out for help because her husband disrespects her and doesn’t want her to excel at anything.

She said that he does not give her money to buy personal items like clothes, cream and even to make her hair.

According to Violet, anytime she makes a demand, he often tells her that her personal problem is not his concern.

The woman said he also refused to establish a business for her so that she can start fending for herself.

She sought tha advise of netizens because she is considering leaving him, but according to her tradition in her family, it is forbidden for a woman to remarry.

Violet wrote; “Please I need advise, whenever I ask my husband something he always tell me, anything about me does not concern him, he doesn’t give me money for hair, clothes and even to buy cream, nor even to open store.

He always insult me both public. He always tell me he will pack my things out one day, i ve told my sister and brother everything, still they told me to stay.

They said in my family the women does not marry 2 time. Please i need advise and help bcos i don’t have father and mother anymore, please.”

My husband refuses to open business for me or buy me stuff - Housewife laments

Meanwhile, a woman, Janet Jegede has been remanded in custody at the Correctional Centre, Afao Road, Ado Ekiti for murder.

An Ekiti State High Court in Ado Ekiti ordered her to be kept in custody as a criminal lunatic after she was accused of stabbing her husband, over claims that he constantly cheats on her.

The convict was arraigned before Justice Bamidele Omotoso on September 16, 2020, on one count charge bordering on murder.

The charge sheet read “that Janet Jegede (36) on 17th November, 2019 at Ado Ekiti within the jurisdiction of this honorable court, did murder one Jegede Kayode,(Her husband) contrary to Section 316 and punishable under Section 319 (1) of the Criminal Code Law, Cap C16, Laws of Ekiti State, 2012.”

The stepson, Jegede Ayomide in his statement submitted by the police, said; “I received a call from my stepmother informing me to come home to take my father to the hospital because. When I got home, I met my father in the pool of his own blood, gasping for breath. I saw a knife hung in his chest. I asked her what happened, but her explanation was incoherent.

When I removed the knife, the bleeding increased. I went outside to call other neighbours to help me take him to the hospital. He was rushed to Ekiti State University Teaching Hospital (EKSUTH) where he was confirmed dead on arrival.

My step mother once asked me to warn my father to stop cheating on her. She threatened to kill him. I took it as an empty threat until she killed my father”.

The prosecutor, Olowoyo-Richard Ayobami called five witnesses and tendered statements of the defendant, a knife, photographs of the lifeless body of the deceased and statements of the witnesses as exhibits.

In his pleadings, counsel to the defendant, Emmanuel Adedeji said, the defendant was mentally imbalanced at the time of the incident, he urged the court to discharge and acquit the defendant on the ground of insanity.

In his judgment, Justice Bamidele Omotoso said; “It is settled that where a plea of insanity succeeds, the defendant will be ordered to be confined in a prescribed place to await further order of the appropriate authority.

“I hereby order that the defendant, Janet Jegede, be kept in custody as a criminal lunatic at Correctional Services Centre, off Afao Road, Ado Ekiti until the governor’s pleasure be known in line with Section 223 of the Administration of Criminal Justice Law, 2011.”