A young Nigerian man has recounted how his ex-girlfriend broke his heart by cheating on him with a medical doctor.
The guy known on Twitter (X) as @Darkbreedd said they dated in the university and in his 300 level, she used to help him to search for jobs and internships as a software engineer.
He shared the heartbreak story in a lengthy rant on the microblogging platform, noting that she had been diagnosed with Lupus at the time. He added that for relationship to work there must be sacrifice and loyalty, on both parts.
In his words; “People need to wake up o. Girl i was dating while i was in 300 level was everywhere on this space soliciting and looking for jobs/internships for me as a software engineer while also cheating on me with a doctor.
Sacrifice and loyalty are two worlds apart. You need both. Every-time i tried to have a conversation about her relationship with him.
She’d manipulate me with the amount of sacrifice and work she’s putting into ours. Crazzy times man😹 I need that shit and i’m grateful for it.
Ngl man Things like this will open your eyes. You wont carry trust from 2023 into 2024 without confirming to see if they still deserve your trust. Crazzy part is she had Lupus.
I couldn’t wrap my head around how we were both making sacrifices but the one with the auto immune disease was the one cheating 😹💔 Make it make sense.
Doc had a fiancée who broke up when she found about about my girl. They had printed out their wedding invitation card but my own girl wasn’t aware she was his fiancée, Doc never mention, he just always said “close friend”
Lady broke up without saying a word, it broke the Doc. He dropped my own girl, my own girl figured she was his side piece and play thing. Same thing she was doing to me.
Funny how she kept telling me everything as a form of “reassurance” but i was reading through the line. She was heart broken and i could see it but i couldn’t break up on the spot coz she had Lupus.
Her emotions and her health are tied together. So i had to wait a little for her to heal while also dropping reassurance from my own then i broke up.
She went quiet for some days, very sure they rushed her to the hospital. I was sure her flares got triggered from my text
I didn’t bother texting to know what’s up coz i didn’t care anymore. Texted me later and was begging, “can we still be friends” “Did i do something” Then switched up on me for “doing her bad”
Narcissist oshi 😹 I remember trying to cheat back but na. I couldn’t. The disadvantages were more on her end. Someone that has lupus?? She go just die throwway from the heartbreak. I was being kind anyways.”
