“Men have no agenda in relationship other than to penetrate” – Tems

Sensational Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, professionally known as Tems, has revealed that she’s never been in love before.

She made this known during a chat with YouTuber, Korty EO, in the teaser of the upcoming episode of ‘Flow with Korty.’

Tems was asked if she’s ever been in love and she shook her head, while sharing her opinion about the agenda of most men when it comes to relationships.

"Men have no agenda in relationship other than to penetrate" - Tems

The ‘Try Me’ crooner said a lot of men approach relationships with no agenda other than to sleep with a woman.

Korty asked; “Have you been in love before?”

Tems replied; “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”

The Grammy winner also opened up about being constantly misunderstood and bullied because of her reserved nature and how she handled it.

Everything I did seemed to annoy everybody. They would say, ‘Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.’ And I would say, ‘You are very stvpid. Are you craazy?’ I was upset all the time,” she said.

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“A lot of guys are very obvious, there’s no agenda but to penetrate” – Tems . 📸 – @korty_eo #tems #afrobeats #music #afromixx

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In other news…

Nigerian music sensation, Crown Uzama, also known by his stage name, Shallipopi, has revealed that he is scared of falling in love.

The 23-year-old ‘Elon Musk’ crooner said the idea of falling in love scares him because of the fragile nature of his heart.

Shallipopi appeared as a guest episode of The Receipts Podcast and disclosed that he developed a fragile heart after a lover broke his heart.

The singer said: “I’m a lover of love but I don’t love because of the way this generation is. My heart is fragile so if someone plays with it, I will cry.

Someone broke my heart in the past. We were in a relationship, then something happened and we broke up. The fault wasn’t from me.”