A Nigerian man has opened up on how his infidelity put him in a dilemma he’s struggling to find a solution for.
He said that his landlady caught him with his side chic somewhere on Lagos Island and sent him a message to meet her when he reaches home.
The married man thought she wanted to scold him or report to his wife, rather, she asked him to also have an affair with her.
According to the father of three, in a bid to prevent her from exposing his unfaithfulness to his wife, he gave in to his landlady’s demand.
He also lamented that despite satisfying her in bedm his landlady insisted that he must not renege on rent payment.
He wrote; “Please help me look at this issue. My land lady caught me with my side chick somewhere on the mainland, I think she came there to see the owner of the place and thereafter she left and send me a message to see her when I get back home.
Me that I was thinking she wants to para for me and lecture me about how to be a good man to my family (I have a wife and three kids). I got to her house and met her drinking red wine that’s how this woman started threatening me that if my wife should hear what she saw today, how would she reacted? I didn’t answer.
She said she doesn’t know I do stuffs like that and she has been looking at me like someone that is responsible that’s how she said that one is not her problem that it’s been a while she had sxxx and I should start getting to work the following day, that’s how we started having an affair and you won’t believe this woman told me her house rent should not delay one day.”
In related news, a Nigerian author and founder, Oyinkansola Alabi has addressed the seeming double standards set for both Christian men and women.
She said when a Christian woman has a partner who cheats, she is usually expected to pray for him whereas when the case is reversed, the man dumps her immediately.
According to the techpreneur, it should be appropriate for the man who catches his wife cheating be a good Christian and pray for demons to depart from his home, instead of opting for divorce.
Alabi, in a post on her Twitter account, wondered if God is no longer against divorce or is it only allowed when a woman is the guilty person.
She wrote; ”Christian women have been sentenced to WAR ROOM for years to pray for cheating men but the moment a Christian man catches his wife cheating, he divorces her. Can’t he pray too? Can’t he bind the demons that want to destroy his home? Or has God stopped hating divorce?”
