Lady seeks advice as she finds out her husband-to-be’s cousin was her ex-bedmate

A Nigerian woman has sought the advise of well-meaning individuals on how she can solve an issue that could lead to the end of her two-year relationship.

She said that she and recently went for her boyfriend’s family function and met his cousin who happens to be a guy she had a ‘friends with benefits’ arrangement with eight years ago.

According to the lady, she and her man are planning to get married and she feels the need to tell him that she used to sleep with his cousin.

She revealed that his cousin advised her to keep their secret to herself, but she want to tell him, however, he is conflicted.

She said; “I met my boyfriend two years ago, we’re planning to get married. Recently at his family event, I found out he’s cousins with a friend of mine that I was FWB with for a few months 8 years ago.

His cousin is saying I shouldn’t tell my boyfriend about it but I want to tell my boyfriend, is telling him the right thing?”

Meanwhile, a young man recently opened up on how his infidelity put him in a dilemma he’s struggling to find a solution for.

He said that his landlady caught him with his side chic somewhere on Lagos Island and sent him a message to meet her when he reaches home.

The married man thought she wanted to scold him or report to his wife, rather, she asked him to also have an affair with her.

According to the father of three, in a bid to prevent her from exposing his unfaithfulness to his wife, he gave in to his landlady’s demand.

He also lamented that despite satisfying her in bedm his landlady insisted that he must not renege on rent payment.

He wrote; Please help me look at this issue. My land lady caught me with my side chick somewhere on the mainland, I think she came there to see the owner of the place and thereafter she left and send me a message to see her when I get back home.

Me that I was thinking she wants to para for me and lecture me about how to be a good man to my family (I have a wife and three kids). I got to her house and met her drinking red wine that’s how this woman started threatening me that if my wife should hear what she saw today, how would she reacted? I didn’t answer.

She said she doesn’t know I do stuffs like that and she has been looking at me like someone that is responsible that’s how she said that one is not her problem that it’s been a while she had sxxx and I should start getting to work the following day, that’s how we started having an affair and you won’t believe this woman told me her house rent should not delay one day.