Lady ends up having affair with ex who dumped her after 4 years to marry someone else

A Nigerian Twitter known as @Steadi_lady has shared a story about a complicated relationship which left her befuddled.

She revealed that a woman is having an affair with her ex-boyfriend who dated her for four years but chose to marry another lady.

Two years into his marriage and the former lovers rekindled the passion they shared which led to have having an affair.

@Steadi_lady who disclosed that the man and his ex often meet up at a hotel, wondered if she has self esteem issues or if t is just mental illness.

She wrote; “You dated someone for 4 years, when it’s time for him to settle down, he got married to someone else.

2years now into his marriage and you’re still linking up with him in different hotels; is it low self-esteem or madness? Odiegwu.”

Reacting, @dokasto said; maybe she forgot that he is married

@Falilatt_; Can be low self esteem and lack of self love.

@blakemooore; I thought there was a general consensus that you must not date to marry.

In related news, a man has narrated how he discovered that his fiancée is having an affair with a friend he allowed to stay with him.

The guy who lives with his babe said his friend visited him in Lagos and he agreed to accommodate him in his two-bedroom apartment.

According to the heartbroken man, their wedding is coming up in August this year.

He said things were going smoothly for six months, but the situation took a new dimension when his company sent him to Cameroon on a getaway and he left his fiancee behind with his friend in the same house.

When he returned, he tried retrieving a number from his friend’s phone and that was when he saw a WhatsApp message from his wife-to-be’s number even though it was not saved.

He wrote; This my friend came to Lagos to stay with me as I am currently living in a 2bedroom flat with my girlfriend, someone I am planning to get married to by August this year, that’s even more reason why I got this apartment in the first place.

So this my friend called me that he wants to come and hustle small in Lagos, he has been staying with us for 6months now and everything good. I traveled for my company’s getaway to Cameroon, spent one month there. I got back on Friday and I noticed something wasn’t right. But I didn’t pay much attention.

This morning, I collected my friend’s phone to pick a number to call then one funny message came through from his WhatsApp and I opened it like who is this guy. I was still laughing and closed back the message when I noticed my wife’s number in the WhatsApp chat “unsaved” though. I moved slight and I opened the chat.

Please do you think the did has been done? Cos I have been at Obalende since morning thinking and wondering why I shouldn’t go to the third mainland bridge and just dive. This is a girl that I paid for 5years through the university. Engineering course btw.