A 27-year-old Nigerian lady has cried out about being trapped in a relationship with a man she does not love.
She said that when they met 3 yeas ago, she did not love him but he showered her with money and she decided to give him a chance with the hopes that she will develop feelings along the way.
But despite all the good and expensive things he’s been doing for her she still does not love him, now she wants to leave but he keeps threatening her.
According to the lady, he also pays her rent and bought an iPhone which he asks her to return whenever she talks about leaving him.
She is scared and confused because she wants to end the relationship but he keeps threatening her life.
In her words; “I’m 27 years of age and I started dating my boyfriend 3 years ago. When we first met,I didn’t love him but he started spoiling me with money and I decided to accept him, but knowing fully well I wasn’t into him.
I accepted him not because of the money but I wasn’t thinking I would love him or I would start to develop feelings for him. But upon all the money he has been giving me I still don’t love him…but this boy have been paying my rent and buying me gifts.
The main problem is, whenever I want to breakup with him then he goes mad… he would be threatening my life and even asking me to pay back all the things he has been doing for me especially the iPhone.”
In other news, Nigerian actress, Sarah Martins has opined that it is possible for a man to love, protect, and provide for his side chic while still loving his wife and family.
She, however, said the same is not the same for women as a wife can never cheat on her husband and still love him like before.
Taking to her Instagram page, Sarah said once a woman cheats, she begins to look at her man in a condescending way and starts faulting everything he does.
The curvaceous actress also said some side chics love men more than their wives do, to the point that they even support them financially.
In her words; ”I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
Most of these so called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
Your side man friends can NEVER dump their partners because of you because they will have the mentality that if you can cheat on your husband with him, you can do worst things to him when he finally makes u his. So use your head and stop disgracing your children ! You may think nobody is seeing you but posterity will judge you sis. And you men that find joy in sleeping with people’s wives, posterity will judge you!
I have seen where a man marries more than one wife and still love them equally but I’ve never seen where a woman marries more than 1 man. Even in the Bible MEN NA OUR OGA! Feminists if you insult me on these post trailer will jam u.”