Keeping in touch with your exes will damage your relationship – Erigga

Nigerian Hip Hop sensation, Erigga has advised people against maintaining communication with their ex-lovers while in fresh relationships.

He said their exes will cause lasting damage to their current relationship if they continue chatting and keeping in touch all in the name of not seeing each other as enemies.

Erigga, who is married, made the comment through his official Twitter account on Friday, 26th of January 2024 and it generated reactions.

The rapper wrote; “Your Exes will continue to damage your relationships until you stop indulging them in the name of “we’re not enemies”..”

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In reaction, @TunjiStillDey said; You have to be very careful with exes, an example is x.

@ChikaJove32416; Ex no get end , so let them continue, besides we are not enemies 😅

@daram_ola; Since she’s your ex, what are you searching for? Move forward and avoid looking back. Na you dey look for what is NOT there.

@Millfhunter69; Una dey advise grown adults wey know their left from their right for relationship? if you dey date babe or man wey still dey talk to their Ex you be better mumu.

Meanwhile, in another news…

A Nigerian woman identified as Peace Ijeoma Albert, has revealed how she unintentionally chased away all her ex-boyfriends with her anger issues.

The lady who is now married, said her hubby is the only one who was willing to handle her anger and understood her situation despite trying to leave him numerous times.

She appreciated him for the sacrifice because they both had anger issues but he decided to control his own just so that he can have her in his life and help manage her anger.

Peace shared her story on Facebook while advising people to fix their partners instead of breaking up with them due to bad attitude.

She wrote; “Sometimes I wonder why my ex them no marry me But I stopped thinking when I realized how much hubby has tolerated me. Let me share a story with you and please learn. Before I got married, I had this anger issue, very terrible one oh. I hardly let go. In fact, if you claim that you love me, one of the things you should get ready to handle is my anger wahala and insecurity. Let’s talk about insecurity later, I will tell you some day how it ruined things for me in the past.

For today, let’s talk about the anger issue. So, when I became intimate with hubby, I noticed that he had anger issues too, but mine was at the peak. Hubby complained so much, I broke up with him severally, damaged things because I was unable to control that demon in me then Hubby will always beg even for doing nothing, hmmm I tried walking away from the relationship because of the level of harm and pains I cause him each time I became angry. But, hubby never wanted to let me go, I knew I was going to give him stress, but he verbally promised to help me to work on anger”.