I’ve stopped trying to compete with women being sponsored by men – Working class lady

A Nigerian woman, Queen Precy has lamented about how hard it is to outdo women who regularly receive monetary gifts from men.

The real estate agent said she realised that someone who earns salary cannot compete with a lady that men always give money.

Precy said she tried to outwork a girl who is being sponsored but she could not match her so that is the reason she stopped trying to be in a competition with them.

She explained a situation whereby she works to earn N200k whereas the other lady got N400k from a man within the same period.

According to the realtor, she has decided to be happy and contented with what she makes from her legitimate hustle.

Precy wrote; “You cannot outwork , outcompete a babe getting money from her man every two weeks ,I tried it, I don work 200k , they have sent her 400k.

I just had to quickly leave competition zone and start manifesting , appreciating , hailing and being happy because depression for kill me. I’m seriously getting oppressed but.”

See her post:

In reaction, @agirlcantoo wrote; My younger sister dey collect my 3 month salary every couple of weeks that time from her ex , I used to sit down & think of my life 😂

@dannyberry_; Everybody saying “why were you competing”… me I’m just cheer amazed at your maturity and awareness that you knew when to quit and change that toxic habit… to more wins 🥂💪🏾 Some of your mutual follows often like this Tweeter

@hannahwsnn; Competing in the first place is silly, it’s giving SS2

@kachaofuma; A lot of people don’t know when to quit, then it turns to hatred from them to the other person.. I’ve trained my mind to manifest every good thing around me.

@mariampearls; In as much as I don’t do competition no matter how much you flaunt it to my face but low-key looking for a man to place me on salary 😟😟😟

@SSmileyhart; The people saying “why compete” are being so dishonest. Sometimes it’s not active jealousy motivated competition. It could be as simple as them getting something you also like and want for yourself. You strive to get it, only for it to be old model when you do. Rinse and repeat.

@jaiykneepharr; Truth is, women like this are usually very lazy. It’s so difficult to work when a man keeps spoiling you with money like that. You won’t make out anything for yourself! and Godforbid the relationship ends, you’ll do anything to sustain the lifestyle he introduced you to.