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I found out after 4 years that my boyfriend cheats on me with men and women – Heartbroken lady spills

A Nigerian lady has revealed how she found out that her boyfriend dates men and other women while in a relationship with her.

She said that he informed her about his attraction towards men after four years of dating and also introduced her to his boyfriend.

The woman said that she also discovered that her boyfriend had been cheating on her with the guy and another girl.

She visited his place and found the lady there, and she claimed to be pregnant for him.

In her words; “Please hide my identity. I have been having a normal relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. Out of the blue last month he told me he is attracted to men. I thought he was joking until he introduced me to his boyfriend. I asked if he still had feelings for me and he said he liked me as a friend. Those words went ghuu in my heart. I decided to move out of his apartment.

Last week I went back to his apartment to fetch the rest of my stuff and found a girl he once introduced me as his colleague cooking. She told me straight that she was in a relationship with him and they’re expecting a baby. I asked if she knew about his boyfriend and she just laughed. I called him and my number was blocked. When we called with her number he answered and called her ‘babe’.

I wanted to beat her up but remembered she said she was pregnant and it wasn’t her fault. My question is why did he lie to me? I gave him four years of my life. I never never cheated or gave him a reason to doubt my love and commitment to him. Why did he choose another girl over me?”

In other news, a Nigerian man has narrated how he discovered that his fiancée is having an affair with a friend he allowed to stay with him.

The guy who lives with his babe said his friend visited him in Lagos and he agreed to accommodate him in his two-bedroom apartment.

According to the heartbroken man, their wedding is coming up in August this year. He said things were going smoothly for six months, but the situation took a new dimension when his company sent him to Cameroon on a getaway and he left his fiancee behind with his friend in the same house.

When he returned, he tried retrieving a number from his friend’s phone and that was when he saw a WhatsApp message from his wife-to-be’s number even though it was not saved.

He wrote; This my friend came to Lagos to stay with me as I am currently living in a 2bedroom flat with my girlfriend, someone I am planning to get married to by August this year, that’s even more reason why I got this apartment in the first place.

So this my friend called me that he wants to come and hustle small in Lagos, he has been staying with us for 6months now and everything good. I traveled for my company’s getaway to Cameroon, spent one month there. I got back on Friday and I noticed something wasn’t right. But I didn’t pay much attention.

This morning, I collected my friend’s phone to pick a number to call then one funny message came through from his WhatsApp and I opened it like who is this guy. I was still laughing and closed back the message when I noticed my wife’s number in the WhatsApp chat “unsaved” though. I moved slight and I opened the chat.

Please do you think the did has been done? Cos I have been at Obalende since morning thinking and wondering why I shouldn’t go to the third mainland bridge and just dive. This is a girl that I paid for 5years through the university. Engineering course btw.