Nigerian brand ambassador, Josephina Otabor better known as Phyna has opened up on the type of men she would not consider dating.
The winner of Big Brother Naija 2022 said she will not date a man who has a child or children and this is because of the difficulties associated with dealing with the child’s mother.
Phyna stated categorically that she is afraid to date a single father but noted that she will give such relationship a thought if the ex-wife or baby mama is married to someone else.
The reality TV star made her preference known during an episode of her trending podcast Spill With Phyna which had her colleague, Tacha as a guest.
She expressed concerns about potential “baby mama drama” and recalled seeing cases in which the baby’s mother causes drama and problems for the man.
Phyna said; “I am not sure I can date a guy that has a child. I’ve met two guys who have children, these are my friends and I’ve seen the drama around it. I’ve seen situations where the baby mama will come and be like ‘who are you now leaving me for?
The stress is more than when a girl has a child and it’s more chaotic with guys. Even if the men don’t like you, even if they don’t want to settle down with you, the baby mama just doesn’t want them to move on.”
Meanwhile, in another news…
An unemployed African man identified Byago Donat chose to engage in street begging in a bid to make some money for the raising of his seven kids.
Life took a drastic turn for the single father when his wife upped and abandoned him with all their children, making it difficult for him to work for income. Donat had stated that he wanted to use use the money he raises from begging for alms to take his children to school and also pay house rent.
According to the struggling man, he would love to seek employment to cater for the kids, but being the only parents figure in their lives, he has to perform the duty of a mother to the minors, some of whom are still babies.
“I am a father of seven children. I had five before we got the last two who are twins. We spent a month and a half in the hospital and I came home with my wife. We spent another two and a half months together thereafter before she left,” Donat said.
He recounted how he returned from work one day only to meet his wife’s absence and till date nobody seems to know her whereabouts.
“When I called her phone, it was off and I thought her battery had died. I started looking for her and went straight to the bus station hoping to reunite with her but people told me her bus had left,” he added.