A Nigerian man simply known as Orji, has narrated how his girlfriend’s show of ingratitude led to the end of their relationship.
The US-based techpreneur said he used to give her N20k every month for data subscription but because she asked for something else which he could not provide immediately, she downplayed his committment to her.
He said she asked him of what value he is to her when he appealed to her to exercise patience for some weeks so that he will look into her request.
Orji said the statement was heartbreaking and shocking but he knew he could no longer continue dating her after that day.
He wrote; “Some yrs ago, a woman I’ve done everything for, once asked me while sitting in my car “of what value re u to me?” Simply bcos there was something she asked me to do for her & I told her to give me a couple of weeks.
This was someone I was giving 20k monthly for data subscription. I couldn’t believe my ears that fateful day. And of course, that marked the end of our relationship.”
Reacting, @diamondemee said; And when many of you meet good women, you won’t spend up to 1k on her. You’ll be expecting her to ask. As they say, experience is the best teacher so let’s keep experiencing.
@cosmooflagos; Una sef go de over do, 20k for sub Kilode Is she into tech
@amara_landu; In all honesty, I implore you guys to stop putting girlfriends on allowances. It’s quite odd in my opinion
@femibadguy; Make I no talk my own, it always ends with that statement “what have u even done for me? Of what value are u to me? Na man wey no get value for himself dey make sacrifices for woman. We all learnt the hard way and that’s the best way to learn because the lessons stick forever
Similarly, a Ghanaian man has taken to social media to narrate how he discovered that his girlfriend is cheating on him with a family friend.
He said he checked her phone and saw chats between them proving that they are sleeping together.
The guy said based on the chats he read, she made the family friend believe that they are no longer in a relationship.
He cried out about it because he’s been dating her for four years and even put her on Ghc 2,700 (N120k) allowance to complement her salary of Ghc400 (N18k) at the place she works.
The man felt totally heartbroken and betrayed by her actions, but he said he will not breakup with her.
According to the boyfriend, he intends to play along and keep acting like he does not know what is happening, then when the time is right, expose her to her family.
In his words; Just went through my woman phone and it’s fun and sad at the same time. The lady will be asking what should I do for you to trust me again but sleeping with a family friend behind.
Fear women, I have screenshot all the chat between him and the guy and sent it to myself, Will play along till am ready to marry then will show it to the parent. Apparently she told the guy we are no more and she doesn’t want the family to also know.