A Nigerian undergraduate studying at the University of Ibadan, has stated there is nothing wrong with dating multiple men and it should not be termed ‘cheating’.
She took to her Twitter account @BabyHondy on Monday, October 16, and explained that dating two men at the same time is akin to a student writing WAEC and NECO exams.
According to the student, if one does not favour the person, the second option is like a back up which will come in handy when needed.
She tweeted; “Dating two guys is not cheating fr. It is just like writing Waec and Neco, if Waec no favour you, Neco go favour you, shey u get.”
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Meanwhile, in similar news…
Nigerian actress, Sarah Martins opined that it is possible for a man to love, protect, and provide for his side chic while still loving his wife and family.
She, however, said the same is not the same for women as a wife can never cheat on her husband and still love him like before.
She said once a woman cheats, she begins to look at her man in a condescending way and starts faulting everything he does. Sarah also said some side chics love men more than their wives do, to the point that they even support them financially.
In her words; I saw a lot of comments on the post I made yesterday about a cheating wife and a lot of people were justifying the woman’s action.
Truth is, man can love his side chic, provide and protect her and still love his wife even more and will never neglect his family. But truth is But you see ehh, a woman can never cheat on her husband and still love him same way. In some cases, they start looking down on their husbands, begin to be authoritative over silly things, they begin to find fault in virtually everything their men does, the man that u fell in love with and had kids for will begin to irritate you for no reason.
They begin to compare their husbands strength with their man friend’s, they begin to harbor grudge more than necessary, they find it difficult to forgive or apologize etc. You all should stop comparing yourselves with men because men will always be men and the sooner you begin to accept the fact that you can’t compete with a man over infidelity the better for u.
Most of these so-called side chics loves your husbands even more than you do oh yes….. A side chic can support your husband financially, emotionally, sexually and spiritually but you as a wife can’t even lend him a kobo even when u have millions in your account as a sign of support to the family.
