Don’t date beyond three years before you marry – Phyna advises single ladies

Big Brother Naija ‘Level Up’ winner, Josephina Otabor, better known as Phyna, has urged single ladies to abandon any relationship that does not lead to marriage after three years.

The reality TV star who gave the advice during her podcast, Spill With Phyna, recalled how her ex-boyfriend deceived her for 12 years with fake promises of marrying her.

Phyna further asserted that most men who don’t have intentions of settling down with their partners, pin them down by feigning romantic gestures and making unrealistic promises.

The brand ambassador said; “If you date a guy, at most three years and he is still not considering marrying you, walk out of the relationship. This issues of men wasting women’s time in relationships without the intention of marrying them is predominant in Edo State.

In Edo State you will see people that have been together for 10 years with no plan of marriage. I did 12 years. The men have no plan of marrying you but they will be feigning romantic gestures to deceive you.”

In another news…

A Nigerian man recently went online to seek advice on behalf of his friend who made a shocking discovery just a month to his wedding.

He said his friend just learnt from his fiancee that she did abortion once in the past and he is considering calling off the wedding to hold this year. The man reportedly took his wife-to-be for test and it was confirmed that she can still conceive, however, he is not sure if he should still move forward with the marriage plans.

She did the abortion in 2018 and he said he loves her but wants to know if he is making the right decision to still marry her.

The post reads; ”My guy was asking, his wedding is slated for late this month and his wife to be just told him last week Saturday that she has had an abortion once. She’s a wife material tho, womb is intact too cos they when to a gynecologist to after she made the confession to check and run checks on her.

She’s good. But he was asking if I’d still carry on with the marriage if I was in his shoes. I told him I’ll bring to PSB and screenshot reactions of people. Abeg make PSB people put mouth take help my guy. He said he loves her and nothing has changed, this was something she did since 2018.”