Buying your man a Valentine’s Day gift makes him weak – Healthcare worker
A Nigerian healthcare worker has asserted that it is not right for a woman to buy her boyfriend or lover a gift for Valentine’s Day because it makes him less of a man.
She said a lady who does that is only making her man weak because he is not supposed to receive from the opposite gender.
Taking to her Twitter page, the lady known as @perfectioncraze, noted that only weak men take gifts rather than give.
She wrote; “You emasculate your man when you buy him a gift for Valentine’s. Real men give, weak men take.”
Meanwhile, a Ghanaian man has narrated how he and his friend both tested their girlfriend to see if they would cheat and it unraveled some heartbreaking secrets.
In a lengthy post on social media forum, Jodel Hub, the guy said his friend asked him to chat up his girlfriend and get her to fall for him.
He played the role and discovered that the girlfriend has been dating another guy longer than his friend.
The man, who was stunned by the discovery decided to also subject his own girlfriend to a test and he was shocked to find out that she was disloyal.
Read his write-up:
So my paddy asked me to text his girlfriend and paddy her because he doesn’t fully trust women. This my paddy too has money so has been spending on the girl. Ff I started texting the girl and we became very good friends. I am very funny and can keep convo going always so texting the girl wasn’t a problem. My friend asked me to propose and see the girl’s response.
Mind you while texting the girl, I didn’t send my own picture but I was using another guy’s picture because my paddy’s girlfriend knows me. This guy too goes for outings and big big locations and he is also very fine you barb. The girl is also those type of girls that like outings. So I used to post locations and videos of the guy chilling for only her to see so it will attract her. So the vibe was going on very well. And everything was set.
So I proposed to the girl just like my paddy asked me to do. And the girl bounced me. I was like why and she told me she has a boyfriend. I still insisted and she said naaa she loves her boyfriend very much so we can’t just be friends or She was like let’s be just just friends or friends with benefits. Hmm girls.
So I accepted the friends with benefits but something dawned on me to ask for her bfs name, When I asked she said her bf is called Nana Yaw and they gave been dating for more than two years meanwhile my paddy is called David and they have been dating for just 5 months
When I asked she said her bf is… I acted very cool. But I didn’t know how to tell my paddy. Because opana loves the girl very much and had invested a lot So I was very afraid, I told my paddy and he didn’t believe so I had to show him the chats. Come and see abodi3 pann Wey dey cry.
He cried his heart out. I started to feel very sad, Charlie my paddy make basaaa . He was my roommate too. Sometimes he mentions the girls name when he is sleeping.
Ayekaaaaaa up on all the money her guy is spending on her still she want friends wit benefit das yyyy I keep telling myself never to try to satisfy or impress women never oooooo, Hmm that was what is surprising.
After this incident I was like lemme also test my woman and see because. So I texted my girlfriend with my other number which she doesn’t know about and we started vibing. She requested for pictures and I sent it to her. So the vibe was really going on. She wanted to see me in person but I kept giving her excuses.
So at that point in time I realized she wasn’t really giving me attention but was giving the other number I was using to text her a lot of attention. But I ignored and was cool, So ff she wanted to see me so badly so I planned on her date with her. But before I did asked her if she has a bf and she was yeah but the vibe is not really there. So I was like okay it’s fine.
We planned on one Saturday night to go on the date. So I deliberately also scheduled a date with my real number to see her response and this girl told me she would be busy on Saturday because she has to go home and see her parents. So I told her it’s okay. I am cool. I kept texting her with my other number and the vibe was going on but I also text her with my real number to check up on her and make sure I give her attention.
Now it was Saturday night. And we planned to have the date .so Saturday in the morning I called her in the morning with my real number to ask if she was able to go home and this girl said Fiw she is home and even made me to her cousin.
It was evening. And time for the date, so I went to the location but the I made sure she got there before me. I came to join on her on the table and she was shocked hmmm She was surprised to see me, I could see the fear and shock in her face but I acted cool. I ordered for food and drinks after we were done eating. I ordered a bolt for her and she left.
She hardly touched the food. Later she called me and started blaming me. She was like I don’t trust her and there is no love without trust and plenty things. Emotional blackmail pann. She told me she knew it was me texting her with a different number and she just Played along. I was like how can you tell me this story. I hanged up the call. Ana blocked her Charlie. Foolish format. This girl is shameless. She can lie ei . She made me talk to her roommate and she told me it was her cousin.