Big Brother Naija (BBNaija 2018) star, Uriel Oputa has shared her experience with a man she believed was serious about their relationship.
Uriel said she returned to Nigeria for Christmas and started dating a man that also returned from abroad.
She explained that everything was going smoothly until he requested to be intimate with her in the bedroom and she declined.
The reality TV star said that the next day she saw that her boyfriend had uploaded his traditional wedding picture.
According to Uriel, she confronted the man about it, but his response to her was to send a new year message. The former BBNaija housemate said the experience left her totally shocked.
In her words; “Omo My First Christmas In Nigeria Yo!!! So I Officially Understand Dirty December. Yo!! Some Guys (Not All) Especially From The Abroad Will Toast You Like Next Week They Will Engage You. Everything Going Well Until You Refuse To Have… Jiggy Jiggy (Look!! My Goodies Aren’T Easy)
E Shock Me I Said No. The Next Morning His Dp Changed To Traditional Wedding Picture. Omo I Went To Look For My Reading Glasses.. I No Believe Am
I Messaged Him.. His Reply Was You Have A Good Heart Happy New Year. Fam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Never Expedited”.
Similarly, a man known as Frank was left with a broken heart and deep fear for women after what his girlfriend did to him.
He revealed that he found out the girl he’s been dating for four years married another man while they were still in a relationship.
The 34-year-old man discovered that it was in the second year of the relationship that she tied the knot with another man.
According to Frank, he was clueless about everything that happened but he noticed that things changed within that period as she became busy all of a sudden.
He said they stopped going on dates and she moved to another place which was far from his house so he could not visit her.
However, she was still coming to visit him on Fridays and on Sunday morning she leaves for church service.
Frank eventually found out she had been married for two years and when he confronted her, she explained that he was not talking about marriage so she had to go for a man who was ready.
She told him that did not want to break up with him so she kept her marriage a secret because she still wanted them to be dating.
Frank said; “Men are sc^m but women are sc^mmer. I once dated a lady for 4 years not knowing she got married to another guy 2 years into our relationship. I didn’t know because nothing really changed, except that we stopped going on dates because she forms busy all the time. Another thing that I noticed was that she moved to a new place that was very far from me, I stopped visiting her while she visits me instead.
She’d come to my place on Fridays and leave for church on Sunday morning. When I found out that she was married 2 years into our relationship, I confronted her. She said she had to because I wasn’t talking about marriage, and she couldn’t tell or break up break up with me because she still wants us to be together. I’m finding it hard to settle down now because I’ve been scared of women since then. I’m traumatized! Fear women!”