Any man who wants to date me as a single mum must take up my son’s responsibility – Nigerian lady

A Nigerian woman has said that any man who is interested in dating her as a single mother must be ready to take up the responsibility of raising and loving her child.

She stated during a podcast that the best way for a man to prove that he loves her is for him to take up her son’s responsiblity like his own.

According to the lady, she cannot be with a man who is not financially capable to take care of she and her child or kids.

She explained that such man needs to be mentally ready for the possibility of taking care of his lover and her children and the baggage.

She stressed that she would not be comfortable with him coming only for her without taking up all her baggage which include the children.

“If you are coming to date me, the fact that you already love me, you are coming to take up my son’s responsibility already

If a man is not financially capable to hold me down in that regard, how is he committed… He needs to be mentally ready that I am taking up this lady, her children and her baggages,” she said.

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In other news, an unemployed man known as Byago Donat has chosen to engage in street begging in a bid to make some money for the raising of his seven kids.

Life took a drastic turn for the single father when his wife upped and abandoned him with all their children, making it difficult for him to work for income.

Donat told Afrimax TV that he wants to use use the money he raises from begging for alms to take his children to school and also pay house rent.

According to the struggling man he would love to seek employment to cater for the kids, but being the only parents figure in their lives, he has to perform the duty of a mother to the minors, some of whom are still babies.

“I am a father of seven children. I had five before we got the last two who are twins. We spent a month and a half in the hospital and I came home with my wife. We spent another two and a half months together thereafter before she left,” Donat narrated to Afrimax.

He recounted how he returned from work one day only to meet his wife’s absence and till date seems to know her whereabouts.

“When I called her phone, it was off and I thought her battery had died. I started looking for her and went straight to the bus station hoping to reunite with her but people told me her bus had left,” he added.

He further revealed that the burden of combining child care with his work as a barber began to take a toll on his punctuality and productivity, hence his boss fired him because he has a no-tolerabce policy for lateness.

The father of 7 who feels dejected after losing the only source of income, noted that he had no other option than to start begging on the streets.