Nigerian writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi has said that any man who gets married to a woman that makes a living by twerking online, is a fool.
He made the remark through his official Twitter page, while criticising such men because according to him, it is like demanding fidelity from a stripper.
He was speaking amid the controversy surrounding celebrity dancer, Korra Obidi and her ex-husband, Justin Dean who accused her of cheating on him when she was pregnant with their child.
Solomon explained that marriage demands basic conservatism where the wife carried herself like a priceless gift, with an air of modesty worthy of emulation.
The social commentator stressed that no well-thinking man marries a woman who’s loose and cannot be a good perfect model to his daughters.
He wrote; “A man who marries a woman who twerks online for a living is a fool. It’s like demanding fidelity from a stripper —or expecting an aeroplane from a seaport. Any woman who shamelessly sells sensuality through dance, music or any other content style has no business getting married, and you have no business marrying her. Why marry a whore and complain she’s a whore?
Marriage demands basic conservatism—wives must carry themselves like priceless gifts, without sexual flamboyance; modest and worthy of emulation by younger women. Your body belongs to your husband and vice versa, and flaunting it for strangers is gross irreverence for marital sanctity. If she can shake her bum for strangers, she will possibly shake it for a strange man, and the strange man will ‘jokingly’ touch her, and they’ll ’jokingly’ commit adultery.
And you are the fool that married her because you believe that external conduct does not matter. No well-thinking and raised man marries a woman who’s loose and cannot be a good perfect model to his daughters. Unless he’s not committed to the marriage, but if he is, one day, he will get tired and want out. Marriage is not child’s play.
“I know a lady who’s a prostitvte and has a happy home.” That’s absolute nonsense! Absolute rubbish. If you’re shaking your bum online, you CANNOT be a good wife and mother. Argue with me, but life doesn’t care about exceptions. Stop defending immorality.”
