A man who hasn’t married you is not obligated to take care of you – Doyin tells ladies

Big Brother Naija ex-contestant, Doyinsola David, popularly known as Doyin, has advised ladies not to feel entitled to a man’s money until they are married.

The reality TV star asserted that whatever a man does for his partner in a relationship outside of marriage is an act of generosity as he is not obligated to cater to her needs.

Doyin, known or courting controversies emphasised that it is not a man’s responsibility to take care of his lover until they are married.

She stated this via her Instagram story while responding to a female fan who sought her advice after her boyfriend broke up with her for calling him “stingy.”

Sharing the screenshot of the message, Doyin wrote: “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend.

“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.

“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right.

“There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman. It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”