What a stubborn husband did after the company his wife works for transferred her to America

What a stubborn husband did after the company his wife works for transferred her to America

A Nigerian man identified as Baba Saleh took to popular Nigerian Facebook group, RantHQ, to narrate what a stubborn man did after the company his wife works for transferred her to America.

According to Baba Saleh, the husband refused to marry the woman legitimately in court and all pleas to make him heed to this move was vehemently rejected by the man.

They although live together as couple, but she is never happy in the union. She was recently transferred to the United States by the company she works for and this man now wants them to go to court and consummate the marriage.

He wrote;

I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family that he doesn’t want a court Marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church
requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken
but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my
family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and
because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and
independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a
multinational company and things started to turn around for me.
I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband, but I never forgave him from my
heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.
Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to
relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to
relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are
married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I
have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go
with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to
her husband, spoiling my family also.
His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me
but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I

have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

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COMMENTS

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    My dear, the moment he gets there with you, he will abandon you. He doesn’t love you, period.

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    Lizzy 4 months ago

    He his your husband and not ur boy friend. Two wrongs can make a right. If you think he has wronged you are you now going to wrong him back ? Pls make Peace with ur husband or do you want to join the evil thing called devoice we africans ave inherited from the whites.

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      Godsent 4 months ago

      Husband that refused to marry nine years ago all of a sudden Visa enter matter boom he is ready to marry her. Forgive ko forgive ni 🙄🙄🙄

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    Ibobot1. 4 months ago

    You are a strong woman and I respect any decision u take on the matter.sometimes people are funny animals.
    Are we God? Who knows tomorrow?. Let anyone say what he or she likes but for me, I stand by u. Let ur heart lead u. Thank you.

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    UCHECHUKWU 4 months ago

    God bless you for standing ur ground, had it be he is the one that got this opportunity to live abroad he would have dump u and ur kids and travelled, u wouldn’t have known he will only drop a letter to tell u to move on with ur life, cause he is now outside start a new life and than he will tell that u he never loved u that he married u for one reason or the other brabrabrar Nne Biko be wise because if u take him with u he will one day kill u and carry ur property to take care of another woman a word is a enough for the wise

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    Idy CaBaSa 4 months ago

    Don’t go to court with him….he is a bad man,he doesn’t love you.Sorry to say this”He is just an opportunist”

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    Itz pere-ebi ozori 4 months ago

    Mhen stop twisting stories like na haba… U go give person heart attack o