Nigerian movie star, Lolade Okusanya, has revealed that she is the one who took the decision to end all her past relationships.
According to her, the three men she dated at different times were planning to marry her, but she dumped them because she was scared of marriage.
Lolade who talked about her love life during an interview with media personality Debbie Shokoya, noted that none of her partners have ever broken up with her.
The Nollywood diva, however, said she wasn’t proud of her actions, but fear influenced her decisions at the time
Okusanya said; “Nobody has ever broken up with me, I broke up with all my exes. I’m not proud of it. The three relationships were all close to marriage when I broke up with all of them. I was scared of marriage at that time. I have never dated a guy that didn’t want to marry me.”
In other news…
Nigerian musician, Michael Adebayo Olayinka, known by his stage name, Ruger, has asserted that ladies are attracted to toxic men.
The ‘Girlfriend’ crooner used his life and past relationships as a prime example to back his assertion, saying he was toxic towards his exes.
The 23-year-old Jonzing Records signee said that he was the one at fault in all his relationships but when he tells his girlfriends to breakup, they insist on staying.
Ruger said; “I was the toxic one. My relationship problems were all my fault. But when you tell girls to leave, why don’t they want to go? You tell them let’s end this, and they will be like, no, we can work it out.
“It’s not about being a better person. If it’s not working, it’s not working. Let’s end it. I was watching one reel and they asked ladies, ‘what’s the most toxic thing you like?’ And they were like, ‘I like it when he is choking me. I love it when he chokes me. I love it when he pushes me. I love it when he shouts at me.’
“Let me tell you, girls are kind of drawn to toxic men in a way. They would not admit it but it’s true. Girls don’t like soft n*ggas like that. At least when they are still in their dating phase. But when they want to marry, they can marry a soft boy.”
