A Nigerian man took to an online forum to share what he has been going through in his relationship and revealed his experience with the lady he has plans to settle down with. He shared his experience and asked for advises from other forum users. Read below;
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.
I’ve dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She’s got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.
But there is this challenge I’m having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won’t talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I’ve had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I’m feeling I’m loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she’s at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I’m not at fault just to make sure we’re fine.
A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn’t been talking to me since then and even when I do she’ll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won’t, she’ll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.
I watched her closely to observe if she’s into someone else but I haven’t got any traces of that.
I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.
Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.
Thank you all